Friend in the similar situation

An old friend called me today. It's been years we have not kept in touch but she called today. She had problem with her boyfriend.

She was crying and didn't know where to turn to. It's just a perfect time that I myself have some problems too. I didn't tell her my story but only listened to hers. Tried to console her and knew exactly how she felt. People around here told her to break up with the guy but I suggested the opposite. I know it won't help her to suggest such option. I know she won't be able to break up with him. She had talked to some friends. Now she called me. So I think she's looking for someone who can be on her side. I know what she wanted to do, to work things out with the guy, even though he is such an asshole.

Love makes people blind and live in denial. It's useless to tell her to get him out of her life. She wants to work things out so let her do it. Then one day, if things can't be better, she will decide to get out on her own.

It is always hard for woman to admit that all guys are the same and we have to live with that fact if we can't let go. Someday women will learn how to live without guys. If the guy can't improve themselves, it will, someday, become the end of human race. We, women, are learning to live by ourselves. We are evolving while guys focus only on their desires.

They say good guys exist but I think it's just their hopes. So sad.

What do we learn from this? There are many good qualities in guys but each guy possesses only one of them. If you can find many good qualities in a guy, probably, he is a girl.